You deserve to feel confident and in control — no matter what situation you’re in.
You don’t plan to freeze — but stress changes everything.
Unclear boundaries, emotional pressure, digital exposure, and unpredictable behavior can turn ordinary moments into high-stakes situations.
You want to respond calmly.
You want to trust your instincts.
You want to know what to do before it matters.
And you shouldn’t have to learn those lessons the hard way.
From protection to preparation — I teach calm authority when it matters most.
I’m Mz. Haze.
I come from a background in armed personal protection and high-risk environments where hesitation has consequences.
Today, I teach people how to develop calm authority — so they can communicate clearly, set boundaries confidently, and act with control when situations escalate.
This work isn’t about fear or force.
It’s about preparation, responsibility, and awareness.
A simple 3-step plan to stay calm, clear, and in control.
My step-by-step process equips you with the tools and confidence to identify vulnerabilities, address them with tailored training, and empower yourself to stay safe in any situation.
Awareness
Understand what’s actually happening — emotionally, socially, and situationally.
Authority
Learn to communicate boundaries clearly and calmly.
Action
Train responses until they’re automatic under stress..
No theatrics.
No intimidation.
Just skills that work in real life.
Choose the training that meets you where you are.
Choose Your Path
FOR WOMEN
Personal authority, boundaries, de-escalation, and physical confidence.
FOR PARENTS & FAMILIES
Consent, communication, emotional regulation, and modern threat awareness.
FOR PROFESSIONALS & MEDIA
Speaking, workshops, interviews, and consulting.
Trusted by individuals, families, and organizations who value integrity over intimidation.
My work bridges real-world protection experience with consent-based education.
It’s used by individuals, families, and organizations seeking practical, responsible training — not hype or fantasy.
Everything taught here prioritizes clarity, ethics, and real-life application.
Kink Evaluation & Couples Coaching Clients
"Mz. Haze saved our marriage. I was at my wits end with our differences after 10 years of marriage and two kids. I was hesitant and against it at first. But I didn't realize how many different outlets we both needed in order to come to terms with what we were afraid to ask for in one another. Ken and I needed the push to become vulnerable but in a safe atmosphere. I feel like we fell in love with each other but in different versions of ourselves. What an experience it has been. I am beyond grateful for her."
Female Personal Protection Classes 1 & 2 And Domination Class Recipient
"I hired Mz. Haze to come in and train my staff on protecting themselves. They're all women and have children. I loved the workshop and got so much out of it, that I asked her to come back to host a Domination workshop and my staff couldn't be more equipped to handle communicating with angry customers. My receptionists are very timid. But they function on a new level now and I know it's been empowering for all of them. We have more control now and a skillset to confirm our safety and defuse stressful people. I appreciate the support and confidence she has unlocked for me and my business."
Domination Client
Mz. Haze has been working with me for the past 2 years as I've tried to get a grip of my vices. I am a convicted felon. I've had some serious health issues come up and desperately needed help prioritizing my life. So that I don't go backwards with how I deal with my stress. She's made me more accountable than I've ever been. I owe her for being there and not giving up on me. No matter how dark and stubborn I am. I've rebuilt a life that I'm proud of.
Confessions of a Dominatrix, Part 1 — An Intimate Look at Empowerment, Security, and Consent
Welcome to Confessions of a Dominatrix, Part 1. In this video, I share a more intimate look at my work and why I do what I do. For me, domination has always been about more than power — it’s about teaching security, honoring consent, and helping people feel truly empowered. My mission is simple: to give people of all ages the tools they need to protect themselves in any vulnerable situation.
Real training. Real awareness. Real confidence.
Start with awareness.
Build calm authority.
Train for real life.
FAQs with Mz. Haze
Where can couples get coaching for alternative lifestyles in Denver?
If you and your partner want guidance exploring alternative lifestyles, I offer coaching right here in Denver. Together, we focus on communication, consent, and creating safe, enjoyable experiences — all while honoring your boundaries and relationship goals.
How can I learn about consent and communication in alternative lifestyles?
Consent and clear communication are skills anyone can develop. I teach individuals and couples practical, trauma-informed techniques so you can confidently navigate desires, boundaries, and intimacy in a safe and respectful way.
What are the benefits of consent coaching for couples?
Working with me on consent and communication helps couples build trust, strengthen emotional intimacy, and prevent misunderstandings. You’ll leave with tools to express your boundaries confidently and connect more deeply with your partner.
Where can I find a kink-aware coach in Denver?
That’s me! I’m a kink-aware coach who blends real-world protection experience with consent education. I work with individuals, couples, and families to develop confidence, clear boundaries, and calm authority in all kinds of social and personal situations.
How can a dominatrix help me feel confident?
As a dominatrix, I help people develop authority, self-assurance, and clarity in their choices. My coaching and workshops give you the skills to assert yourself, communicate effectively, and respond calmly — not just in alternative lifestyle contexts, but in everyday life too.